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Oh No! My dog Is Very Sick: Is Pet Hospice Care Right for My Pet and Family?

Because we get many calls from pet families just like yours about helping the fur friend over the Rainbow Bridge, I decided to write a post about this topic. You will discover facts about pet hospice care and be able to make a decision if it is right for you and your pet.

When our beloved fur-friends become ill and the Vet and our common sense tells us that we need to accept that we have moved from “cure” to “comfort”, it is time to ask about hospice care.  My friend Dr.  Dani McVety, who is the head of Laps of Love, an animal hospice group says:

“Illness and death do not happen because medicine fails, they happen because it is the natural progression of life.”


Veterinary hospice is modeled after human hospice, which focuses not on finding a cure, but offering comfort and euthanasia for the terminally ill animal. The hospice team is not about doing surgery or blood work, but only in enhancing the animal-human bond until the very end. The team can manage symptoms and maintaining happiness for as long as possible, should you elect to have death come naturally.

No matter how we wish and hope our dogs and cats would live forever (or at least as long as we will live), it usually won’t happen. Their life span is much shorter, by comparison than ours and for this, we should be grateful. Some people want to “buy time” to allow family members come home for a long goodbye or their religious beliefs prevent euthanasia.

The medical veterinary hospice team will come to your home and work in partnership with you and your veterinarian to carry out the wishes of the family.

If you think about how much your pet would mourn your loss, you can better understand that the love and affection flows both ways. As a caring pet parent, you would rather grieve the loss of your pet, then have your pet suffer from the loss of their favorite human.

You will be better equipped to understand the separation when it is time for them to go over “The Rainbow Bridge” on their way to their next great adventure.


Dr.Dani McVety,DVM, Laps of Love, WIPIN, Women In the pet Industry network, hospice, animal hospice, euthanasia, vetereniarian

Dr. Dani McVety, DVM who started “Laps of Love” Animal Hospice. Dani was  selected Pet Woman of the Year by WIPIN ( Women In The Pet Industry Network)

Veterinary hospice is not about extending suffering, but rather preventing suffering from occurring at all.  

 Dr. McVety goes on to say: “Hospice care revolves around the client-patient-doctor relationship, adding interdisciplinary supplemental services to support the family in any way possible. Education about your pet’s medical condition is the most important aspect of hospice care, and it’s what Lap of Love veterinarians spend the most time on. We have informational sheets on many common diseases our companion animals suffer from located in the Education section of the website.  

You need to know what to expect in those last few weeks, days, and hours in order to make the best decision for you, your pet, and your family. Although we cannot know for sure, we use our medical knowledge to help you make those decisions. We assist you in implementing a plan that will meet your pet’s needs and respect your family’s wishes.”

As humans, we have gone through some or many losses and so do not regard death as the most painful thing in life, and yet the passing of a beloved pet can break our heart.  There are grief support groups available when we lose a human part of our life. I, Judy Helm Wright, am a certified Pet Grief Coach and offer packages for assisting you to on this healing journey.  Call me today at 406.549.9813

Unlike people, our pets have a legal release of the pain and suffering of this life. They are spared the discomfort, confusion, humiliation and frustration of a decrepit older life. We need to know when to make the decision about the release of pain and suffering by euthanasia and how we want our beloved friends last days to end.

Pet Hospice Care: Is It Right For My Pet?

One of the most devastating times in a pet parent’s life is that heartbreaking moment when their best tail-wagging pal or favorite feline friend is gone forever. Unfortunately, the end of a pet’s life doesn’t usually come naturally without some degree of suffering. Many veterinarians recommend euthanasia as the kindest way to ease a pet’s pain, there are other options for those of us who wish to spend as much time as possible with our pets, allowing them to pass away on their own in a peaceful and dignified way.

Just like human palliative care, pet hospice care aims to make our cherished animal friends as comfortable as possible as they approach the end of their lives, as an alternative to euthanasia.

Palliative Care For End of Life

Many veterinarians actually now offer palliative care programs, which involve the use of close monitoring, medications, special food and supportive care that allows our long-time companions to remain as pain-free as possible and surrounded by familiar family members at home during their last weeks or days.

So what does hospice care involve for us as pet parents? Well, it’s definitely no easy ride, and it can be a full-time occupation. Owners who choose palliative pet care are learning how to perform tasks like giving fluids, changing bandages, administering medications for pain and nausea, assisting our pets to move around and go to the bathroom and keeping them groomed, comfortable and in good hygiene.


Care Giving Can Be Full Time

Owners also need to keep a close eye on their pets for any changes in their appetite, behavior, movement and toilet habits – the health status of a pet can change quickly, and veterinary intervention may be needed immediately if a pet is suffering.

As nice as it might sound to be able to spend more time with Bailey or Fluffy, hospice care isn’t the perfect solution for all pet parents, though, or even for all pets. Those of us who are considering this type of end-of-life care for their furry friends need to know that a veterinarian who’s very experienced in providing hospice care for pets should closely oversee palliative care. This is especially important in pain management and hydration care.

Hospice Care is Expensive

The intensive nursing that many chronically sick pets require is often exhausting for their owners. It is not only emotionally draining but can drain your bank account very quickly.

The costs of having ongoing care are not covered by Medicare, as is Hospice for Humans. You will have to pay out of pocket, even if you have pet insurance.

It’s also vital for owners to understand that pet hospice care isn’t a continuation of treatment for their pet’s condition. Instead, Hospice is a way to ease the discomforts that their furry family members experience as they approach the end of their life on their own.

It’s also not an ideal option for our companions who are in uncontrollable pain or who have a really poor quality of life – for these pets; euthanasia is usually the most humane decision.

Please check out the report on how euthanasia is done by clicking on It is a very humane procedure and you can make it a spiritual, sacred event for you and your pet.

If you feel that palliative care should be an option for your ailing pet, this is a good time to share concerns with your veterinarian. He or she is the best person to discuss your plans with; they can teach you how to assess your friend’s quality of life, provide information about whether palliative care is a good option for your pet and your family, and help you to recognize if your pet is declining and other avenues need to be considered to end their suffering.

Judy Helm Wright is a certified Pet Grief Coach and offers a listening ear and understanding heart. Contact her today at 406.549.9813 or through our website

You will be so glad you did. If you decide Hospice Care is right for your pet, or you make the decision to offer “a good death” you will have support and resources to help you through this sad time.




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